What happened so far
It's an ordinary day until something small becomes a parenting moment with Child.
A small thing about something small becomes a big thing.
Turn it into a tiny lesson: what to do, why it matters, and a practice run.
Get close, name the feeling, and make it safe to talk.
Do nothing and try not to think about it (for today).
Hold the boundary kindly: ‘I hear you. And the answer is still no.’
React harshly and hope fear teaches the lesson.